Effort vs Surrender

 

I have been reflecting on the dichotomy between Effort and Surrender recently.

Initially, Effort can be quite beneficial, especially when one feels disconnected. It provides the mind with a purpose and aids in developing valuable skills such as concentration, positive habits, and ethical behavior. 

However, as time progresses, Effort may transform into an obstacle or create a metaphorical “wall” that hinders further insights. In such cases, Surrender can prove to be immensely valuable. Surrender allows us to release ingrained patterns, overcome ignorance, and intuitively embrace “grace” or naturalness. It enables us to perceive reality beyond the confines of our ego/mind’s fixed perspective. 

Even on a smaller scale, finding the right balance between Effort and Surrender during contemplation is crucial. This balance ensures that we avoid excessive rigidity while also preventing excessive slack or relaxation.

Experiences come and go. Consciousness remains the same.

 

"It came as a flash and disappeared as such. That which has a beginning must also end. Only when the ever-present consciousness is realized will it be permanent. Consciousness is indeed always with us. Everyone knows ‘I am!’ No one can deny his own being. The man in deep slumber is not aware; while awake he seems to be aware. But it is the same person. There is no change in the one who slept and the one who is now awake. In deep sleep he was not aware of his body; there was no body-consciousness. In the wakeful state he is aware of his body; there is body-consciousness. Therefore, the difference lies in the emergence of body-consciousness and not in any change in the Real Consciousness. The body and body-consciousness arise together and sink together. All this amounts to saying that there are no limitations in deep sleep, whereas there are limitations in the waking state. These limitations are the bondage; the feeling ‘The body is I’ is the error. This false sense of ‘I’ must go. The real ‘I’ is always there. It is here and now. It never appears anew and disappears again. That which is, must also persist forever. That which appears anew will also be lost." (Ramana Maharshi, Talks, 96).

The quote talks about how temporary experiences of consciousness are not the same as the true realization of our own being.

The quote says that sometimes we may have glimpses of apparent changes in consciousness or states of mind that come and go quickly. These are not lasting or satisfying, because anything that has a beginning also has an end. The only way to be truly free and happy is to recognize the consciousness that is always present and never changes. This is our real nature, our true 'I'.

The quote also compares the states of deep sleep and waking. In deep sleep, we are not aware of our body or anything else. In waking, we become aware of our body and the world. But this does not mean that our consciousness has changed. It is the same consciousness in both states. The difference is that in waking, we identify with the body and its limitations. This is the cause of our suffering and ignorance. We need to let go of this false sense of 'I' and realize the true 'I' that is always here and now. This 'I' does not come and go, it is eternal and infinite.

Is a teacher necessary in the nondual teachings?

 “It is earnestness that will take you through, not cleverness - your own or another’s.”

― Nisargadatta Maharaj, I Am That: Talks with Sri Nisargadatta Maharaj

Is a teacher necessary in the nondual teachings?

Nondual teachings are a form of spiritual inquiry that aim to reveal the true nature of reality and the self. They are based on the premise that there is no separation between the subject and the object, the observer and the observed, the self and the other. Nondual teachings challenge the conventional dualistic view of reality that assumes a distinction between the inner and the outer, the personal and the impersonal, the relative and the absolute.

One of the common questions that arise in the context of nondual teachings is whether a teacher is necessary or not. Some people may argue that a teacher is essential, as they can guide, support, and challenge the seeker along the path of awakening. They can point out the pitfalls, misconceptions, and blind spots that may hinder or obscure the recognition of one's true nature. They can also offer feedback, validation, and encouragement to help the seeker integrate and embody their realization in daily life.

Others may contend that a teacher is not necessary, as they may create dependency, authority, or hierarchy that may interfere with the direct experience of reality. They may also impose their own views, beliefs, or interpretations that may limit or distort the seeker's understanding of nonduality. They may also have their own flaws, biases, or agendas that may compromise their integrity or authenticity as a teacher. Furthermore, some people may claim that there is no need for a teacher, as one's true nature is always present and accessible within oneself. They may suggest that one can rely on their own intuition, insight, or inner guidance to discover and realize their true nature. Some teachers openly admit that the whole purpose of a teacher is only to point out the 'inner teacher' that each apparent individual innately contains (or actually is).

So, is a teacher necessary in the nondual teachings? There is no definitive answer to this question, as different seekers may have different needs, preferences, and experiences. Some may benefit from having a teacher, while others may not. Some may need a teacher for a certain period of time, while others may need one for longer or shorter durations. Some may find a teacher in a person, while others may find a teacher in a book, a video, a podcast, or even in nature. Ultimately, the question of whether a teacher is necessary or not is secondary to the question of whether one is sincere, open, and willing to inquire into their true nature and reality. As long as one has this genuine aspiration and curiosity, they will find their way to the truth, with or without a teacher. 

Why you should probably write stuff down and free up some attentional space for creativity or contemplative activity.

 

Attentional space is the mental capacity we have to focus on different things at the same time. It is limited and can be affected by stress, distractions, or multitasking. One way to manage our attentional space is to write down on paper what is occupying it. This can help us to prioritize, organize, and delegate our tasks and responsibilities. Writing can also reduce the cognitive load and free up some attentional space for more creative or complex activities.

The concept of attentional space is a term used in cognitive psychology to describe the amount of information that can be processed by the brain at any given moment.

The concept was first introduced by William James in his book “The Principles of Psychology” in 1890. James described attentional space as the amount of information that can be held in consciousness at one time. The concept has since been expanded upon by other psychologists and cognitive scientists. The idea has since been used in a number of productivity type books by various authors such as Chris Bailey.

Should we focus on the I-thought / ego or on pure awareness during self-enquiry?

 

Self-enquiry is a method of meditation and introspection that aims to discover the true nature of one's self. It involves turning one's attention inward away from external objects and asking the question "Who am I?" or "What am I?". There are different approaches to self-enquiry, and one of them is to focus on the I-thought or the ego, which is the sense of individuality and identity that arises in the mind. This is one's every day experience of being an individual. It is the sense of being that seems to wake up in the morning. 

Another approach is to focus on pure awareness, which is the background consciousness that witnesses all thoughts, feelings and sensations. It is ever-present as one's beingness, presence and sense of existence itself.

Both approaches have their advantages and disadvantages. Focusing on the I-thought can help to dissolve the attachments and identifications that cause suffering and ignorance, but it can also reinforce the sense of separation and create a subtle sense of duality. 

Focusing on pure awareness can help to experience the peace and bliss of one's true nature, but it can also bypass the psychological issues and emotional wounds that need healing and integration. Spiritual bypassing is a common occurrence for those that seek the teachings as a way to transcend and bypass every day challenges that face the individual. Therefore, it is important to balance both approaches and use them according to one's needs and preferences. Ultimately, self-enquiry leads to the realization that the I-thought and pure awareness are not separate, but expressions of the same reality or nondual foundation only.

Why does experiencing awareness, as it is, seem so difficult for a lot of people?

 Why does experiencing awareness, as it is, seem so difficult for a lot of people?

Experiencing awareness, or simply being present in the moment, or simply being, can indeed be challenging for many people due to a variety of reasons:

1. **Constant Mental Activity:** Our minds are naturally active, constantly thinking, analyzing, and processing information. This mental chatter can make it difficult to focus on the present moment without being carried away by thoughts about the past or future.

2. **Cultural and Societal Conditioning:** Many cultures and societies emphasize productivity, achievement, and goal-oriented thinking. This conditioning can make people feel guilty or unproductive when they simply "be" in the moment without a specific purpose.

3. **Stress and Anxiety:** Stress and anxiety can dominate one's thoughts, making it challenging to be present. Worries about the future or regrets about the past can consume a person's mental energy.

4. **Attachment to Technology:** Our modern world is filled with distractions like smartphones, social media, and constant connectivity. These technologies can pull people away from the present moment and into a virtual or digital reality.

5. **Lack of Mindfulness Practice:** Awareness and presence are skills that can be developed through mindfulness practices such as meditation, yoga, or simply paying deliberate attention to the present. Many people have not been exposed to these practices or have not made them a part of their daily lives.

6. **Cognitive Overload:** In today's information age, people often experience cognitive overload, where they are bombarded with a vast amount of information and stimuli. This can make it difficult to filter out distractions and focus on the here and now.

7. **Emotional Disturbances:** Strong emotions, such as anger, fear, or sadness, can pull people away from the present moment. When emotions become overwhelming, individuals may find it challenging to remain aware and centered.

8. **Ego and Self-Identity:** People often identify strongly with their thoughts, beliefs, and self-image. This attachment to the self can create a barrier to experiencing pure awareness because they are always interpreting the present through the filter of their self-concept.

9. **Lack of Time:** Many people lead busy lives, and the demands of work, family, and other obligations can leave little time for contemplation or self-awareness.

10. **Fear of Facing the Self:** Some individuals may avoid being present because it requires confronting aspects of themselves they'd rather avoid. This can include past traumas, unresolved issues, or uncomfortable emotions.

Despite these challenges, there can be great benefit in stopping for a few moments and simply being aware- not necessarily of any object, but just aware. Cultivating an awareness of being aware itself. It can reduce stress (in the form of constant subject-object tension), improve mental health, enhance relationships, and provide a greater sense of fulfillment. Overcoming the obstacles to experiencing awareness, just as it is, often involves first developing some attentional skills, mindfulness type skills and making a conscious effort to prioritize a sense of 'presence' in daily life.

Self-inquiry - Is it better to use the first-person or second-person when directing the mind to investigate one's self?

 

One of the most common methods of nondual self-inquiry is to ask the question "Who am I?" This question is meant to direct the attention to the source of one's identity, beyond the body, mind, and emotions. By repeatedly asking this question, one can dissolve the false sense of self and realize the true nature of awareness.

However, some people may find this question difficult or confusing, especially if they have a strong attachment to their personal identity or ego. They may feel that asking "Who am I?" implies a denial or rejection of their individuality, or that it leads to a state of emptiness or nihilism. They may also struggle to find an answer that satisfies them, or to maintain the focus on the question without getting distracted by thoughts and feelings.

An alternative way of practicing nondual self-inquiry is to ask the question "Who are you?" This question is addressed to the presence of awareness that is always here and now, regardless of the changing states of body and mind. By asking this question, one can acknowledge and appreciate the mystery and beauty of one's true nature, without trying to define or limit it. One can also cultivate a sense of intimacy and love with one's own being, as well as with all other beings.

The advantage of asking "Who are you?" is that it can bypass some of the obstacles and challenges that may arise when asking "Who am I?" It can also create a more positive and playful attitude towards self-inquiry, as one is inviting rather than interrogating oneself. It can also open up the possibility of dialogue and communication with one's inner wisdom, intuition, and guidance.

Of course, both questions are ultimately pointing to the same reality, and neither one is better or worse than the other. They are simply different ways of approaching the same goal: to discover and abide in one's true nature. As Sri Ramana pointed out to one seeker, 'how many selves do you have?' 

The choice of which question to use depends on one's personal preference, temperament, and stage of development. Some people may prefer to use both questions interchangeably, or to switch between them depending on the situation. The important thing is to be sincere, curious, and open-minded when asking either question, and to follow where they lead.

Formal spriitual paths vs informal or unstructured spiritual paths.. which is better?

 

I want to share something with you that I think is important. You know how some people claim that there is only one right way to achieve spiritual enlightenment? Well, I think that's not entirely correct. Here's why.

First of all, a formalised orthodox path to spirituality has just as high failure rates as in informal, unstructured approaches. Each approach will appeal to different individual personalities. Just because someone 'made it' with one approach doesn't necessarily mean that approach will undoubtedly work for all. For example, some people criticise Ramana's approach or Nis' approach because it's unstructured, all over the place, confusing at times, left to individuals to define, and not as structured as traditional Advaita Vedanta (or Buddhist schools etc). At the same time some teachers criticise traditional Advaita Vedanta because it involves learning so many texts, Sanskrit, formal logic, lineages etc., which may not be especially relevant to actual self-enquiry, and can even serve as furthering the ego's preservation. Neither path holds a higher 'success' rate.

Secondly, spirituality is not a competition or a race. It's not about who gets there first or who has the most knowledge or experience. It's about finding your true nature and living in harmony with it. It's about being yourself and accepting yourself as you are. It's about being free from suffering and ignorance. It's about being happy and peaceful.

So, don't let anyone tell you what you should or shouldn't do on your spiritual journey. Don't let anyone make you feel inferior or superior because of your chosen path. Don't let anyone judge you or pressure you to follow their rules or methods. You are the only one who knows what works for you and what doesn't. You are the only one who can discover your own truth and reality.

Just follow your heart and intuition. Trust yourself and your own experience. Experiment with different approaches and see what resonates with you. Be open-minded and curious. Be humble and respectful. Be honest and sincere. Be grateful and compassionate.

And most importantly, have fun and enjoy the ride!

Is Ramana's self-enquiry the same thing as Gurdjieff's self-remembering?

 

Q: What are some similarities and differences between Sri Ramana Maharshi's atma vichara (self-enquiry) and Gurdjieff's self-remembering? They seem to produce a similar outcome, and also involve some sort of meta awareness of one's 'self'?

Ramana Maharshi's self-enquiry and Gurdjieff's self-remembering are both spiritual practices that aim to facilitate self-awareness and self-realization, but they come from different philosophical and cultural backgrounds. While there might be some similarities in their underlying principles, they are not exactly the same thing. Let's explore each concept in more detail:

1. **Ramana Maharshi's Self-Enquiry:**

Ramana Maharshi was a renowned Indian sage who taught a practice called "self-enquiry" (also known as "Atma Vichara" in Sanskrit). This practice involves directing one's attention inward and asking the question, "Who am I?" or a similar enquiry into the nature and essence of one's "I" experience. External objects and phenomena are excluded and one's full attention is given to the feeling of "I" or "I am", beingness etc. The goal of self-enquiry is to lead the individual's awareness from identification with the ego and external phenomena towards recognizing the true nature of the self or consciousness. The process involves continuous self-inquiry to uncover the source of the "I" thought (or ego or egoic aware mind) and to realize one's essential nature beyond the ego, or that which is the source of the arisen ego.

2. **Gurdjieff's Self-Remembering:**

G.I. Gurdjieff was an influential spiritual teacher known for his teachings on self-development and consciousness evolution. He introduced the concept of "self-remembering," which involves maintaining a heightened awareness of oneself and at the same time one's surroundings throughout daily life. This is slightly different from self-observation, which involves paying attention to one's thoughts, actions, reactions and experience in the same way as being an external or objective observer. Self-remembering, according to Gurdjieff, helps individuals break free from mechanical reactions and unconscious behaviors, allowing them to develop a deeper connection to their true essence or higher self.

While both self-enquiry and self-remembering involve introspection and self-awareness, they have distinct methods and approaches:

Approach:

Ramana Maharshi's self-enquiry involves asking the question "Who am I?" and diving deep into the investigation of the self's nature. It's a direct inquiry into one's own existence.

Gurdjieff's self-remembering emphasizes maintaining a continuous awareness of oneself in various situations, aiming to break automatic responses and habitual thought patterns.

Context:

Ramana Maharshi's teachings are rooted in traditional Advaita Vedanta philosophy and have a strong foundation in Indian spirituality and meditation practices.

Gurdjieff's teachings emerged from his own experiences and a blend of various spiritual traditions, including Sufism, Eastern spirituality, and Western esotericism.

While the ultimate goal of both practices is to facilitate self-awareness and realization, they are presented within different frameworks and methodologies. Whether you resonate more with the introspective approach of self-enquiry or the active self-remembering of Gurdjieff's teachings will depend on your personal inclinations and spiritual journey. It's important to study and explore both approaches to understand their nuances and potential benefits.